Hospitable Spirit

Okay, I really want to talk about our people's hospitable behavior. I am not sure whether Taipei's people are hospitable or not. Because they became selfish since 61 years ago. They are lack of warmness and friendliness, you can say they are close to Japanese in fashion field and not very warm-hearted as other cities in Taiwan.
As for me, I was born in middle class family in the super warm city, and before my father's economic situation dragged my mother's economic situation, my Mom usually treats my all classmates in class. When I was a child, I cannot understand why my Mom could donate the money to my school and class, yet she didn't take me to travel abroad. However, the money she donated to school is worth to study in USA more than 2 years. This kind of behavior and character, we call it "Hai pai" in Taiwanese and Mandarin languages. And my Mom just told to me that she wanted to plant the field of blessing for me, because she believed that I will have the smooth life. To me, she is a devout Buddhism.
Because I used to this kind of life, I frown stingy guys. In Taiwan, our boys are generous in general. Since our old traditional thought is that boys should have the virtue to pay bills for girls. And parents would give boys more money to do that. Also, if that Taiwanese boy would like to chase a girl, he would treat her all friends. However, nowadays Taiwanese boys are more poor to do that, I originally thought it's stingy than me. Yet after I compared to other countries situation, I thought our boys are better than other countries in this kind of behavior. That's why I frown stingy guys, for me and my good friends, we usually have this kind of hospitable and generous behavior. But our gilrs save money on shopping field, I think it's different from other Asian countries.
In addition, our girls are beneficent to poor and would like to work volunteer jobs, it makes our boys also need to do volunteer jobs what if they want to get a good impression from girls. Basically, you can find there are 3 boys do volunteer jobs among 10 boys; yet you would find 9 girls who do volunteer jobs among 10 girls. Our people love helping others and feel very happy when we help the people who indeeed.
I think it's good, but after I found the some thought from foreigners, I want to stress that we are kind, but don't treat us as idiots, or you will lose the trust of our people. Perhpas for some people, they don't care that they lose credibility. For me, I mind.